Musing from a contemplative mind....

I know how you are feeling. Have you heard someone ever say that? Oh really, you think to yourself, since I don't really know how I am feeling, how do you? If you knew you wouldn't say that? That's the last thing you need. What you need is someone who says they would like to know, and give you time to tell. Not assume that they already know - because they don't, but they would like to find out from you.