Musing from a contemplative mind....

IT is something we have all experienced. Its not being honked at when you cut someone off and its not taking offense when someone accidentally says something so hurtful that it cuts to the bone. The tragic part of forgiveness is that for each time you actually find out someone has forgiven you, there are many silent forgivnesses that are extended which you are not privy to. One of the most astounding quotes is this, "love keeps no record of wrongs." You are able to measure how well you are doing with forgiveness by your record keeping. Ask someone why they keep such copious records and likely they would have to search for an adequate answer. Yet unforgivness abounds in some. It requires a great investment and promises a negative return.