So here we sit its 12:40 and we are waiting for our cronically late friends that to arrive so that we can start our vacation.  I guess I shouldn't whine, cause I am going on vacation, but-- ya know. When you have an expecation it is a little difficult to adjust.  Waaa. Okay I am over it. I must say though, lateness is like a sickenss... ah, but what is the cure?  That is a question, that people have asked for centuries....